SAFETY
Don’t rush on the personal info
One of the perks of online dating, is the sense of safety we feel behind our computer screens. In part, we do reduce some of the physical and emotional fears we would normally experience in traditional dating. But this does not mean we should forgo safety precautions. Don’t give out personal information. Common sense right? Wrong. Many of us get caught up in all the fun we have chatting with people that we forget to be cautious. So even though we’ve been talking to that incredibly good looking (well based on his profile) guy for a week now, we shouldn’t pull down the walls just yet. One common mistake some make is exchanging nude photos with a few days. Even celebrities have learned the hard way about how their nude photos can get in the wrong hands. If you want to be respected then you need to give yourself that place. The moment you send risqué photos or give your number to someone you’ve just met, you’re putting yourself at risk. What we think might be a great catch, could easily turn into a unsavory experience. When it comes to your safety, it’s always better to be safe than sorry.
Do take backup
Let’s say after a good period of getting to know one another, it’s finally time to meet the hunky guy in person. We suggest taking back up. What kind of backup? It could be anything really. Maybe plan the first date in a public setting like a theme park, bowling or dinner at a restaurant with a busy ambiance. You still get the one on one feeling, but with a peace of mind. Taking your own car on the first date is a definitely a good idea. Tell the date you’ll meet them at the place you plan to hangout. Not only will this give you the option to make a swift getaway if your date isn’t going to well, it also eliminates having to rely on the date to drive you back home, especially if they turn out to be the overly touchy kind. Don’t forget these two essentials: cellphone and cash for taxi or car keys. Also, pepper spray never hurts.
Popular Dating Sites to Check out: eHarmony, Match.com
